Please help me to match colours in my livingroom/kitchen.?

curtains are gold honey walls are flat cream very bland and the floor is wooden and varnished. I have a beige stone fireplace. these colours have to be taken in to account. My kitchen units are cream too. its a biggish room but it has alot to do as its livng and kitchen. What accent colours should i use on the kitchen wall tiles - you will be able to see them from the living room and i will pick up the colour in cushions and a throw etc. something a little edgy would be nice. my girls are 8 now so they are not so messy anymore. we want a soft feminine room but not boring - thanks all. could i have two accent colours I would like to have coloured floor lamps. Shabby chic would be ideal thanks again